The Search For the Best Pickup Lines – Openers

So many men are using pickup lines everyday and so few are having any success with it. None of these cheesy pickup lines works. Why, you ask?

They do not have any other purpose than giving the girl a compliment. This is a problem if you want to engage in a real conversation with her, because she can choose to either accept the compliment or decline it and walk away. Even if she accepts it, you are leaving it up to her, to continue with the conversation.

An average looking girl gets approached somewhere between 20-50 times each day. Think about that for a moment, 50 times! That a whole lot and I would be surprised, if she thinks that you are just another chump that are trying to get in her pants. Now, do not blame the girl, she cannot help being pretty. Instead, take this newfound knowledge and use it to your advantage.Therefore, what we are going to do (instead of trying to find the best pickup lines), is to create openers. An opener is not the same as a pickup line. No, while a pickup line is only good for approaching the girl, the opener goes a few steps further.

Let us look at a classical opener:

“Hi guys, I need a female opinion on something. Who do you think lies more, men or women?”

Now, why is this question so powerful?

1) It gives you a reason to approach a girl (or a group) with a simple and harmless question.
2) This question is like crack for the girls, they love to talk about relationships, dating and the difference between men and women.
3) They feel compelled to answer you, almost if you were asking for the time or directions.
4) It is very easy to continue into a normal conversationIt is best to prepare some openers at home, before you are going out. Try to make the questions about dating, relationships or the difference between men and woman, these type of openers works the best.

The Best Pickup Lines Do Not Work – Ask Questions Instead

Every man knows a lot of pickup lines and we all know that they rarely work. So what can we do to make our pickup lines work and get the girls?

First of all, we need to throw out the pickup lines that only works for one thing; giving the girl a compliment about her looks. Just forget them, throw them out the window and never use them again. The best pickup lines are not designed to give the girl a compliment, but are more about getting into a conversation with the girl.A classical pickup line is usually something like

“Do you come here often?”

or

“You have pretty eyes”.

Now, there is nothing wrong with giving people compliments from time to time, actually, one of the traits of a leader, is the ability to give people compliments. However, if you try to get to the girl, a compliment is a really bad idea. Let me tell you why…

An average looking girl gets approached somewhere between 20-50 times each and every day. Now, that is a whole lot. Now, imagine that same girl on in club. How many guys to you think, will come up to her and offering her a drink or tell her that she is pretty. A whole lot more than you think.Therefore, you have to be unique and find an alternative way to approach the girls. Try asking them some innocent questions instead or use the current situation you are in, for example, “did you see that girl over there…” and stack it up with something funny.

What Are the Best Pickup Lines? There Aren’t Any, and Here is Why

If I had a penny for every time I would listen to the above line.

Women attract men with their looks, while men attract women with their character and status. While it takes less than five seconds to decide whether you like a girl or not, I would be very surprised if you would be able to prove your character and status within five seconds.Well, actually there are several men that can do that, namely bartenders, rock stars and politicians. Any position that has one man getting all the attention is a woman cash flow.

However, I really do not think that you are in this category because if you were, you would have never landed at this page. So, what can you do if pickup lines do not work ?

Work on your pickup approaches. This mean that instead of thinking that I have to go to that girl and say one line and it is over, think: I will go to that girl and I will stay next to her until I switch all her attraction switches one by one.

You need time to attract a girl: something between two to thirty minutes. If you haven’t managed to do it by then, move on because you will not do it at all.As pickup approaches you have two kinds:

a) Direct – tell her openly your intentions

b) Indirect – hide well your intentions.

Pickup takes time to learn. The good news are that it is a skill and it can be learned. You can learn this too.