Best Pickup Lines for Meeting Women

No doubt you’ve already got a collection of pickup lines you keep on hand, right? Maybe you drag one out when you meet a woman and need something to say. “Is it hot in here, or is it just you?” And maybe it’s even worked — once? Maybe twice?

Or maybe, when it comes right down to it, you just don’t feel it enough to pull it off. If you can’t say it with conviction — “Hey, if I followed you home would you keep me?” — it’s just going to fall flat.

In any case, you’re reading an article about the best pickup lines for meeting women. Which suggests that you’re still in search of that magic phrase, that golden line that will make her fall all over you.

“Have you heard the one about the obese polar bear? No? Well, it’s just an icebreaker.” No, that’s not the Magic Line… but it might be a step in the right direction. The best pickup lines are icebreakers. If you plan to open with, “If you were a booger I’d pick you first”, you’d better have a great follow-up to recover from the awkward silence that is pretty much guaranteed to follow. But if your line actually invites a response, you’re more likely to get somewhere.

A humorous line can be great if you can pull it off. But the problem with all your favorite pickup lines is that she’s heard them before. And they stop being funny the second, third, or four-hundredth time she hears them. If she’s attracted to you, you might do well. But that’s because she’s attracted to you, not because of your winning pickup line. You might just as well recite the soliloquy from Romeo and Juliet. Which may, in fact, work better.

So what are the best pickup lines? Believe it or not, “How’s your day (or night)?” gets high marks for effectiveness, if not for style. It lets her respond, and invites her to start talking to you.

Also popular is the Unsolicited Compliment opening. Try to avoid the obvious, though. Everyone else will be telling her how beautiful her eyes are, how warm her smile is. So look for something unique, something reflective of her personality. Unusual jewelry, a tattoo, ideally something that might have a story you can ask her about. Again, the point is to get her talking to you.

I’ve found, too, that asking for ID can be a great pickup line. Though it works best (and perhaps I’m showing my age here) if the woman is over thirty. And buying alcohol from you. But in those circumstances, I’ve found that women respond very well. So if you’re able to use that, please be my guest.

The Truth About the Best Pickup Lines

I wanted to bring some truth to the subject of best pickup lines. Pick up lines are used for starting a conversation. That’s it. Most people assume that pick up lines are lines that you say to a girl that have her swooning over you. This is true to an extent. There are things you can say that generate attraction off the bat. However, keep in mind that the main point of pick up lines is to start a conversation with a stranger.

So what are the best pickup lines to use on hot girls? The truth is that there is no such thing as “best pickup lines”. If I knew them, I’d be a millionaire selling my secrets to the world. If you read someone’s sales page telling you they have the best lines ever. Run. Turn the other way and run because it’s probably not true. There’s no one single line that will work all the time. Different situation call for different chat up lines. Plus, people are different. What works on one person may not work on someone else.

What I can tell you with some certainty that the worst pick up lines are the classic ones. The “did you fall from heaven” stuff. Jeez, you can smell the cheesiness from a mile away.

Creativity Always Works

It’s important to remember that when you are speaking to the opposite sex for the first time, particularly in a bar or club, first impressions last and your opening line should be there to simply break the ice. After all you want to get a good conversation going.So when looking for the best pickup lines go for something that will do just that. Pay attention to your environment. There is always something funny going on. Be creative. When you use your environment the chat up line comes off much better. Women respond to it because you’re demonstrating that you are creative and it’s not some cheesy line you try to use all the time.

The Search For the Best Pickup Lines – Openers

So many men are using pickup lines everyday and so few are having any success with it. None of these cheesy pickup lines works. Why, you ask?

They do not have any other purpose than giving the girl a compliment. This is a problem if you want to engage in a real conversation with her, because she can choose to either accept the compliment or decline it and walk away. Even if she accepts it, you are leaving it up to her, to continue with the conversation.

An average looking girl gets approached somewhere between 20-50 times each day. Think about that for a moment, 50 times! That a whole lot and I would be surprised, if she thinks that you are just another chump that are trying to get in her pants. Now, do not blame the girl, she cannot help being pretty. Instead, take this newfound knowledge and use it to your advantage.Therefore, what we are going to do (instead of trying to find the best pickup lines), is to create openers. An opener is not the same as a pickup line. No, while a pickup line is only good for approaching the girl, the opener goes a few steps further.

Let us look at a classical opener:

“Hi guys, I need a female opinion on something. Who do you think lies more, men or women?”

Now, why is this question so powerful?

1) It gives you a reason to approach a girl (or a group) with a simple and harmless question.
2) This question is like crack for the girls, they love to talk about relationships, dating and the difference between men and women.
3) They feel compelled to answer you, almost if you were asking for the time or directions.
4) It is very easy to continue into a normal conversationIt is best to prepare some openers at home, before you are going out. Try to make the questions about dating, relationships or the difference between men and woman, these type of openers works the best.